…A Method for Training New Moms…
Produced By: Yes, And! Theatrical Company in partnership with Virginia Repertory Theatre
At: Theatre Gym at VaRep, 114 West Broad Street, RVA 23220
Performances: May 15-31, 2025
Ticket Prices: $40 general admission
Info: Email: yesandrva@gmail.com; Website: yesandrva.org; Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/yesandrva/
A Theater Review by Julinda D. Lewis
Some definitions you might need to know before seeing Cry It Out:
Cry It Out (CIO): a sleep training technique that involves putting babies in their cribs and leaving them to cry or self-soothe and fall asleep without parental intervention
NoseFrida®: a nasal aspirator or “snot sucker” for babies who do not yet know how to blow their noses
Some plays are just more relatable than others. I’m not sure how this play hits if you’re not a mother (feel free to comment!), but Molly Smith Metzler’s take on motherhood, Cry It Out (2017) is empathetic, relevant, authentic, and hilarious. Just as we warm up to the growing friendship between Jessie (Lindsey Zelli) and Lina (Emily Berry), the playwright throws in not one, not two, but three new plot-changing dynamics.
Both new moms, Jessie is a corporate lawyer married to an unseen spouse who still works in New York City and commutes to their Port Washington, Long Island home. Jessie’s in-laws are “old money” residents and have already pre-paid for their infant granddaughter’s first year at an exclusive daycare. Lina is a hospital receptionist from Long Beach on the South Shore (more urban, more “new money,” more Jersey Shore-ish, if you will) with a somewhat shady past. She, her son, and her partner are living with his mother who has a worrisome habit of disposing of her empty wine boxes in a public dumpster. Jessie is empathetic, a problem solver. Lina is brash, funny. Both are loving mothers and quickly bond, in spite of their differences, over daily coffee meetings while their babies nap.
But discussions of isolation, how to get their babies to sleep, and things like nasal aspirators move to the back seat as the weeks go by and the subject of returning to work becomes increasingly pressing. The economic necessity of mothers returning to work takes on a different, but no less significant, role depending on one’s socio-economic status: where to live; how to pay the bills; career choices and milestones; and childcare.
One day Mitchell (Axle Burtness), a neighbor, whose house overlooks Jessie’s backyard from up on a hilltop disrupts the delicate ecosystem Jessie and Lina have established. Mitchell has seen (spied upon?) the women’s cozy coffee klatches and, feeling concerned about his wife’s adjustment to motherhood, wants his wife Adrienne (played by understudy Erica Hughes on the night I attended) to join them.
The initial meeting is a disaster, and Adrienne subsequently presents an entirely different perspective on new motherhood, work, and society’s perceptions and expectations in general. The ending is quite surprising and reinforces the all-important lesson that motherhood, and families, do not conform to a one-size-fits-all archetype.
Lucretia Marie has directed Cry It Out with sensitivity and an unhurried pacing that assures each of these mothers is heard. Zelli imbues her character with warmth and wisdom even as Jessie herself struggles to navigate these unfamiliar waters. Berry perfectly balances Zelli, with Lina’s heavy eyeliner, thicker accent, and even more colorful language. Hughes brought the tension and surprise, and while Burtness’s character was a caring and loving father, Mitchell was the most emotional of the four parents present – sometimes to the point of being overwhelming.
Nothing much actually happens in Cry It Out. The whole play takes place in Jessie’s sparsely furnished backyard – there’s just a toddler’s playset and table and chair, and later a small patio table with three chairs. (Hm, three chairs, I thought – but there’s only two of them, so…) It’s a play that relies heavily on what’s said, and how it’s said, and who says it. Who but Lina could so convincingly tell a story about going to the door to meet the FedEx delivery man, forgetting to tuck in her breast because she was in the middle of breastfeeding. This reliance on simple, authentic dialogue, I think, places an even greater burden on the actors, who can’t hide behind a pratfall or a prop. Cry It Out makes us think about things that affect most of us, but that we may not often talk about in an open forum. Cry It Out is timely, real, and impactful.
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Julinda D. Lewis is a dancer, minister of dance, teacher, and writer who was born in Brooklyn, NY and currently resides in Eastern Henrico County. When not writing about theater, she teaches dance history at VCU and low impact dance fitness classes to seasoned movers like herself and occasionally gets to perform.
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CRY IT OUT
Written by Molly Smith Metzler
Directed by Lucretia Marie
Cast
Jessie ….. Lindsey Zelli
Lina ….. Emily Berry
Mitchell ….. Axle Burtness
Adrienne ….. Sara Dabney Tisdale
Understudy Cast
Jessie ….. Tensley Nesbitt
Lina ….. Brittany Martz
Mitchell ….. Sarbajeet Das
Adrienne ….. Erica Hughes
Production Team
Scenic Design – Dasia Gregg
Costume Design – Erik Mayes
Lighting Design – Kacey Yachuw
Sound Design – John Pratt
Properties Design – Cai Hayner
Dialect Coach – Erica Hughes
Fight Choreography – Axle Burtness
Production Stage Manager & PSM – Crimson Piazza
Assistant Stage Manager – Marcely Villatoro
Technical Director – Ben Burke
YES, AND! THEATRICAL COMPANY
Artistic Director – Maggie Roop
Executive Director – Matt Shofner
Performance Schedule
Thursday, May 15, 2025 7:30PM Opening Night
Friday, May 16, 2025 7:30 PM
Saturday, May 17, 2025 7:30PM
Friday, May 18, 2025 7:30PM
Saturday, May 19, 2025 7:30PM
Sunday, May 20, 2025 2:00PM Pay What You Can*
Tuesday, May 21, 2025 7:30PM
Thursday, May 22, 2025 7:30PM
Friday, May 23, 2025 7:30PM
Saturday, May 24, 2025 2:00PM
Saturday, May 24, 2025 7:30PM
Sunday, May 25, 2025 2:00PM Pay What You Can*
Tuesday, May 27, 2025 7:30PM Industry Night/Pay What You Can*
Thursday, May 29, 2025 7:30PM Understudy Night
Friday, May 30, 2025 7:30PM
Saturday, May 31, 2025 2:00PM
Saturday, May 31, 2024 7:30PM Closing Performance
World Premiere: 2017 Humana Festival of New American Plays at Actors Theatre of Louisville.
Tickets
Ticket Prices: $40 general admission; $20 Rush Rickets at the Box Office one hour prior to all performances
*Pay What You Can: $5 suggested minimum at the door; $10 minimum in advance
Run Time
Approximately 1 hour, 40 minutes with one 15-minute intermission
Photos from the Yes, And! Theatrical Co., Facebook page






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